Many of us have gone through the dreadful pain of being cheated on. It is something that truly can just break your heart and make you completely cynical toward finding another who will only want you. This negativity repeating when you are with someone that you are debating on taking the relationship to the next level with.

  The past may be painful and it may haunt you, but your future love did not hurt you.Just like you would always wish to be treated as if you wouldn’t harm another, your future significant other deserves the same respect.Even though your trust was broken by the last one, doesn’t mean the next one will do the same. But one thing is for sure, if you continuously question your next love, and try to control them to attempt in avoiding them cheating, you will lose them.

 
  Sometimes trust is the hardest thing in the world, but if you expect any relationship to do well and grow, you need to give a little trust even if it feels like history will repeat itself.

So when you try to think, how to stop someone from cheating, we cannot control others. 

We can just control us.