When You Don’t Know What to Say
Eight approachable phrases for moments when the right words aren’t obvious.
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A short, practical guide for navigating tough conversations, unexpected changes, or uncertainty. Six simple steps you can return to whenever you need them.

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Eight approachable phrases for moments when the right words aren’t obvious.
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A message sounds short. You are unsure whether the person is upset or just busy. Instead of deciding what they meant, try:
“I may be reading this differently than you intended. Can you help me understand?”
One of eight starting points in When You Don’t Know What to Say.
Think of a recent exchange. What did the person actually say, and what meaning did you add? Adapt the phrase to ask one genuine question.
An invitation to understand, not a way to force a response.
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